3 Ways Forgiveness Heals You
The Bible highlights many spiritual tools to aid you on the path to healing. Forgiveness is a major part of the blueprint.

If there’s a violent storm raging outside your home, do you leave the doors open?
Or if there’s a crack in the roof, do you leave it unsealed?
I hope not.
You’d likely have the doors (maybe even the windows) locked shut. And certify that the roof is sturdy and sealed so you and your home are protected.
This is exactly what forgiveness does.
It protects you from being ravaged by a spiritually damaging storm.
Unforgiveness, on the other hand, leaves you (your temple) wide open and exposed.
And it doesn’t take much brainpower to picture the amount of damage an aggressive storm will do to an unprotected home.
There is a spiritual law to uphold, and when you abide in God, you’re in safe hands when the storm brews.
You can’t heal until your borders are protected and sealed off from negative forces.
Here are 3 ways you’ll experience healing when forgiveness takes root.
1. You’ll Live in True Freedom
An unforgiving heart opens doors to demonic strongholds and mental prison.
And we know this isn’t God’s will for us because He calls us to be free. (John 8:36)
In Matthew 18:21-35, Jesus provides a parable about this open-door policy.
Parables are used to paint a very literal example of a spiritual truth.
The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant spotlights a servant whose master has pity on him for being unable to pay a debt he owes.
His master not only releases the servant along with his wife and children, but forgives him of all his debt!
You’d think the now free servant would go on to extend that same mercy to others, but alas.
Instead, when he finds his own servant who owes him money, he seizes the man and, choking him, says “Pay what you owe.” (Matthew 18:28)
This cruel mishandling is reported to the original master of the parable, who then delivers him [the free servant] “to the jailers.” (Matthew 18:34)
The master in this parable represents God, and the servant who is forgiven his debt and released, represents the children of God.
But, in order to remain under God’s care as our Father, we must also do as He does and forgive others in the same way.
So, who do the jailers represent? In The King James Version, the jailers are referred to as tormenters.
As mentioned above, there is a spiritual law to uphold. When we cannot forgive our debtors as God forgives our sins, we make it too easy for a demon to kick down the door and storm our home.
This is why so many get terrorized by spiritual stormtroopers.
An unforgiving heart enhances spiritual terrorism tenfold.
Throughout the gospel accounts and the book of Acts, we see many people tormented by demons. Causing them physical, mental, and spiritual distress.
They needed Jesus and His disciples to cast the devils out!
This is still very true today.
Jesus shows us in His teachings that we can avoid much torment and suffering when we truly forgive.
This will seal the cracks so the devil has zero openings to slither in through.
2. Your Intimacy with God Deepens
Forgiveness is godly behavior. (Ephesians 4:32)
So when unforgiveness festers in your heart, it directly affects your prayer life.
And a strong prayer life is essential to walking with Yahweh.
Scripture says to pray without ceasing. (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
This is pretty difficult to do if bitterness and vindictiveness is hindering our direct access to God!
And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. (Mark 11:25)
We cannot even approach God without first forgiving the people who did us dirty.
Trust me, I get it. This is no simple duty.
Forgiveness sounds simple in theory, but so many are walking around with debliitating symptoms (like PTSD) because of an atrocity done to them by another individual.
It could even be an affliction caused by the hands of a whole group of people (a friendship circle, institution, company, church, medical system, etc.).
The enemy knows this, and he loves it.
He loves our trauma.
It’s the exact door he likes to pry open and slide a wedge in for easy access.
And frankly, this isn’t hard to believe if you’ve ever interacted with a true narcissist. They’re extremely unforgiving, making them perfect open vessels for demons.
When we repeatedly pour over our trauma without reproach to forgive, we get locked into Satan’s realm.
This may not sound fair, but it goes back to the spiritual law. And it always goes back to our man, Jesus!
God isn’t telling us to forgive because He’s strict and wants us following rules. It’s quite the opposite actually, He wants to set us free spiritually!
Take a look at what Jesus says just before his statement in verse 25 about forgiveness:
Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. (Mark 11:24)
Forgiving others and praying for them allows God to heal us by closing the doors on suffering and lack, and opening the doors to peace and abundance.
James 4:2 says we have not because we ask not.
When we have no hindrances like unforgiveness blocking us from the grace of God, that’s when He can begin to truly deliver us and answer our prayers!
Forgive and God opens a floodgate of blessings to you and those who surround you.
When we forgive, we not only emulate Christ (Colossians 3:13), but we move forward happy and healed.
3. You’ll Feel the Rainbow of Relief
Relief comes in may forms.
It could be relief knowing you have a support system during a difficult season.
Or bodily relief from pain.
Even mental relief after chaos and confusion.
Removing the bitterness from our hearts will remove the veil of pain (physical), confusion (mental), and lack (spiritual).
Scripture says to guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. (Proverbs 4:23)
This includes guarding our hearts from bitter animosity, as it causes the body to deplete and remain in a state of stress.
Neuroscience postulates that unforgiveness takes a toll on the body and mind.
And as per usual, Scripture said it first.
When Peter inquires of Jesus, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” (Matthew 18:21)
Jesus responds, “Seventy-seven times.” (Matthew 18:22)
Seventy-seven is a lot. Why would Jesus throw out this number?
Peter likely suggests ‘seven’ because it represents completion. And Jesus responds with 11 times that amount because forgiveness is a whole operation, in which we may undergo many rounds of completion.
I know I’ve gone through numerous years of forgiving the same person over and over.
Forgiveness doesn’t usually happen in one fell swoop. Sometimes it can. Many times, though, it’s a process.
I love how Jesus responds. It is actually reassuring, because He is with us through every step of the journey (Hebrews 13:5). And forgiveness truly is just that, a lifelong journey.
Jesus’ response points to something else: we should expect repeated offense. Not just from others, but ourselves, too.
We are all guilty of being repeat offenders.
Thank you Jesus for dying for us, teaching us to forgive, and healing our hearts in the process.
And thank you Yahweh for showing us the all-forgiving rainbow after the ravaging storm of sin, hurt, and anguish.



